Do You!! Love Yourself and Love Will Come!
- Dec 5, 2018
- 2 min read
Ladies, one day I woke up with an epiphany that I no longer was going to tolerate the bullshit that men bring to the table today. I realized that I have allowed these men to treat me a certain way and use my body for gratification. Now, don’t get me wrong I am no victim by any means but in tolerating this behavior, I have contributed to the creation of non -caring and unproductive men. Men who no longer see the value in a woman. In that, I also became a woman who doesn’t value herself.
Whenever you’re in a relationship with someone and you put up with things you know goes against your principles and morals, you are approving this behavior. If they make you uncomfortable because they’re too comfortable and not contributing to the relationship to your standards, you are approving this behavior. When you respect who you are and understand that your rules and regulations were formed based on past experiences you don’t wish to repeat, you no longer compromise your expectations. Loving yourself allows you to take control of your situations and the people you choose to be a part of it.
Knowing yourself assures that no one will be able to dictate to you who you are. It’s being comfortable in your own skin and knowing what you deserve and not settling. When I came to this realization, I became empowered. I realized that I controlled my life through my choices. I attracted these dead beats because of my low vibrations. When I changed my perception, I no longer tolerated bullshit and I eliminated the disappointment within dating because I no longer rewarded someone with my special jewels that wasn’t earned.
Now, I have met an incredible man who matches my frequency and treats me exactly the way I deserve. It pleased my soul to know that I took control and patiently waited for him to come into my life. Our connection is effortless and genuine and now I truly know the meaning of being in a relationship!
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