Set Boundaries and Block Out Distractions!
- Jun 12, 2018
- 2 min read
I did some serious thinking about the obstacles I have in my life and it made me realize in search of finding a solution I have created boundaries. Boundaries are good things. They allow structure and discipline, however I realized that I was setting boundaries in the wrong areas of my life. Now, I am on a mission to reverse this process and properly place these boundaries where they're needed and I think this may be helpful for some of you as well.
We all have distractions in our lives. Unhealthy friends who have unhealthy habits, people who serve no real purpose in our lives, and dead end jobs that pay us just to survive. These are the areas that need improvement and re-evaluation which means a transformation is in order. You are the company you keep. We identify with our friends in one shape or another; however, in order to achieve change we must change our environment.
This is not an issue of good and bad, but about what's best for you and what needs to be done to reach your goals right now. You will have plenty of time to turn up after you have established the plan. Transformation and discipline is key, but you must place yourself in better conditions. Changing your conditions is important because this will allow you to see how much time you are truly wasting. The energy you’re using being frustrated, bored, and upset can be put towards something more positive and constructive.
Relationships that doesn’t serve you mind, body, and spirit is a waste of time. Some men only want to serve your body and as women we need to create boundaries. This really applies to both sexes because if you are not where you want to be in life, anyone not helping you get there is a distraction. We can’t want from others what we don’t have for ourselves. In order for a relationship to be successful, both parties must be balanced and comfortable in this present moment.
Brothers and sisters we have placed the boundaries on ourselves. We don’t allow ourselves to strive for the best things in life because deep down inside we feel we don’t deserve it. We make excuses and we procrastinate because we have already made the decision that we’re not going to make it. Oppose to thinking we are not qualified enough, let’s seek improving our skills. Instead of looking for a qualified mate, let’s qualify ourselves to attract the perfect mate. You will only attract what you are.
We must lose the distractions in our lives and start applying our time where it matters most. There is only a small window of time for opportunity and some of us are not taking this seriously. It’s time to get focused and really think about what it is you want to do with your life.
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